On the previous day I said that in comparison to relationships the rest looked easy. Well now we are going to an even more complicated subject! Life it self. And it is complicated because for each of is a unique experience. Different personalities, needs, ideas, wishes and dreams create a unique life experience that is personal to each one of us.
And if we add to all of this, the hundreds of books, ideas and theories existing about Life then we have a really difficult subject to speak about. Of course I have read a lot of these and I have thought about it a lot, as well as discussing and observing what other people are doing all around the world.
At once a question pops out in to my mind. “What can I say to all these people that is not already said?” Well what I have noticed is that if not all then most of the time, no matter what other people are saying to us, at the end of the day we are going to do whatever ourselves think best! So I realized that here lies the secret. You are not going to do what someone else is telling you anyway (there are reasons and explanations for this, but this is a different subject).
Our Ego (personality) is like a well protected castle! And you know how these things are? If we want to change something within this castle, then we have to approach it from inside. What do I mean by this? We don’t need someone to tell us what to do. What we need is that we ourselves manage to realize what Life is all about. And further more, it looks that often, even though we know, we don’t act accordingly! So what we need to hear and realize are the reasons why we are reacting like this. Then very simply we, ourselves, will make the certain changes or adjustments in order to live our Life the way we should.
So this is what we are going to do with here! You all are different, different lifestyles, different life experiences and so on. But still you all have the feeling that you have the same problems. Well first of all very few of you really have problems (this is something that I have to explain to you personally), most of you have difficulties. Like not having enough time, Love, understanding, communication and so on! Instead what you have is daily pressure, frustration, insecurity, stress …
What you need to hear isn’t what to do but what not to do! You need to have the picture of your self and your Life right in front of you. Only then you will realize what is going on and why and thus it will be natural for you to act and react in every area as it is needed.
Let’s face it. Our civilization is promised heaven on earth and instead you experience more or less the opposite! How long you will keep on like this? Of course difficulties and even problems are sometimes a part of Life, but it should be a small part of it. Because Life can be a poem, adventure, joy, creation and so on! And we all deserve no less.
What we need to do is to stop compromising and accepting the negative as “as good as it gets”. We deserve better and we can have it!!